A Teacher’s Take on Fatherhood
By Lara Masri, Education Specialist
As an educator, I have witnessed the effect of many fathers on their children’s lives. In my earlier articles, we’ve explored how giving children choice and equipping them with the skills to make informed decisions is essential to helping them develop the ability to take ownership of their lives and learning.
But for this process to truly take root, it must be supported at home. And one of the most influential, yet often overlooked, contributors to this development is “the father” or father figure at home.
Academic and Emotional Strengths
When fathers are actively involved in their kids’ schooling—helping with homework, attending school events, or simply showing interest in their progress—children tend to perform better academically often earning higher grades and developing stronger cognitive skills.
Beyond academics, this involvement contributes deeply also to emotional security. A supportive father provides a sense of safety and self-worth, which lays the groundwork for your child to explore, take healthy risks and engage more confidently in learning.
Personal Growth
Throughout my teaching career, I’ve observed how fathers can play a powerful role in supporting their children’s personal growth and decision-making skills. Here are three meaningful ways:
1. Being Present
Showing up—for school events, homework and daily check-ins. Simply asking, “How was your day?” goes a long way. Remember, presence matters more than perfection
2. Encouraging Choice
Allowing your child to make age-appropriate decisions—what to study, which book to read, or how to organise their time. This fosters confidence and responsibility
3. Having Conversations, Not Lectures
Engaging in open, two-way conversations about their goals, interests and challenges. Listening more than you speak—your attention is more valuable than advice
4. Model Problem-Solving
Thinking out loud when facing decisions. Show how you weigh options and learn from mistakes
5. Valuing Their Voice
Asking for their opinions and ideas. Letting th at school
6. Supporting Without Controlling
Guiding your child’s learning with gentle encouragement and helping them set goals, but resist the urge to micromanage every step. Trust builds independence
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Celebrating Effort, Not Just Results
Acknowledge their persistence, curiosity and responsibility. These qualities lay the foundation for lifelong growth—far more than grades or trophies ever will
Remember, as a father, you provide more than answers—you provide space for their thoughts, ideas and dreams.
Thank you for being the guiding force in their lives and for giving them the voice to shape their own journey. You are making a lasting difference.
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